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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

F.A.Q.

LOVE F.A.Q. (1)


Q: Why love hurts?
A: Love hurts because we always feel disappointed with our partner behavior or wrong-doing. We judge them by saying that you are always right. Love hurts you the most when your lover makes a silly mistake that normally make you angry or sad but naturally you will forgive them when you think that you love him/her the most. And you will die without them.

Q: Why lover always fight?
A: Lover often fights for their egos. They feel like they deserved to be in each other personal life. The life that happen to be likes they are the best among both of them. They set a rule for their partner to follow and the decision always unbalanced.

Q: Does he/she love me?
A: Someone that loves someone else will never show how much they love at first. But they will show their love after a few weeks and even after a few months! Do they love you or not is not the question that you should ask. You should ask that question to yourself. Do you love him/her? And that's the point where you will know how much they love you. Kapishe?

Q: Why I always feel he/she loves someone else?
A: When falling in love or when having a serious relationship, this feeling always in the air. Jealousy makes more love. Seriously! Some people said that this kind of jealousy make our partner feel so bored. And that's 67% right, but in the other hand, jealousy make we feel more love to share as our or ourselves will love him/her more than ever.

Q: Am I qualified to be with her/him?
A: As a normal human being, you should have nerve with not confident. But a smart human being is to be able to adapt or control his/her nerve to be strong and confident with ourselves. All of us have one quality inside that nobody have. And the person who knows the quality is you and only you. Start to appreciate yourself and be confident. You always qualified for someone in this world, as long as you not shy and try. Just be yourself. (period!)

Couple Theory



Fallen in Love With 2 Persons


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Well, there is definitely nothing wrong with that. What to say, we are human after all, creature of great emotions. There is no way we can stop that very love chemical from producing and pumping within us. It is just very natural for one to develop a liking for another opposite sex especially when they are just physically attractive in appearance too.And not to mention that when the both are also getting along very well with one another?


In our interactions with one another, there just couldn't be only one but many others opposite sex whom we would meet. And very often, we would just develop a liking for some of them, sometimes even more than just two. That is life. Life is just full of choices. But then again, what is the meaning of choice?

Very simple, it means having to make a decision over which to choose and in this case whom to be choosing, choosing the one whom you are going to love. Yup, there is nothing wrong with fallen in love with more than one person as long as at the end of the day, you make your choice. And to be able to truly experience some real love, you have to.

Yes, it is only when you are physically into a real relationship will you be able to then acquire and truly experience that real joyfulness and sweetness of being in love.

Even a child understands this. Recall your childhood. I should believe that you have experienced wanting just everything when you were at the toy store. Everything just seem so fascinating to you then, wasn't it? So you cried and bet for your mum and dad to buy them for you.

And very often, you are only given the choice of choosing only one. But you refused the offer and continue to cry hoping you would be able to just get everything.

And what happened in the end? You ended up with nothing at all.

Well, we can't of course deny that facts that some lucky kids may get more than just one of what they beg for. But at the end of the day, for all of the toys they have got, he or she would eventually like one of them best, isn't it?

If as a kid back then, you were able to make that decision over which toys to choose, why is it you can't now? Not able to make up your mind over whom to choose? Think about it. You certainly want to be able to experience some great and just fantastic love, don't you? Remember, you can't have the best of the both worlds and that is for sure. Just like choosing your toys, you have to make that decision over whom to choose and only then will you have the chance to get to enjoy that wonderfulness of being in love.



Believe me, things may seem great and wonderful at first having the companionship of more than just one. But it is just all of a short-term happiness. At the end of the day, the one losing out is going to be only you yourself. You will just probably end up with nothing at all, back to loneliness just once again.


If you are not able to control your feeling well, you may unknowingly found yourself falling into the region of lust, hurting someone whom may very possibly be liking you too. I am sure this is something you wouldn't want, right? Now, follow where your heart goes.


Between the both, there will definitely be one whom you will like more. Just give yourself some time…



Remember, the longer you drag this things, the worse will the situation become.


And in the end, you might not only be hurting those who truly love you but also yourself too. When you have to choose, you just have to. Having choices is always better than having none at all, isn't it?


Now, not many may be as fortunate as you. So, don't lose that chance when you have it. Work things the smart way. Learn to cherish what you have…

Couple Theory


Is that women interested in me?



"You know you are in love when


you see the world in her eyes,

and her eyes everywhere in the world"


- David Levesque -


I've read an article that say, "If a woman tilts her head to the side, licks her lips, fondles her hair, and looks over her shoulder at you, there's a 67% chance that she's interested in you."

The main sign signal that you should look for now is, 'Is she acting friendly to me?'

That's it. Now, of course some women are more forward than others but for overall, if a woman is acting friendly and keeping up an interesting conversation, you're usually doing pretty well.

The key is to KEEP GOING AND CONTINUE TO THE NEXT STEP ALWAYS.

I have to stop and explain this point.

Most men don't realize that THEY NEED TO KEEP ADVANCING.

i) If you're out for a walk and the conversation seems to be going well, reach over and kiss
her.

ii) If your conversation is going well, ask for a phone number.

iii) If you're at your house watching a movie and start kissing, take her hand and lead her to your bedroom...

The key is keep advancing.

Women like this and expect it. If they're not comfortable, they'll let you know. But don't worry. Just keep going and advance again at the next opportunity.

Don't push – advance.